The Promise of Happiness in Marriage

Monday, December 19, 2011

Jumping The Broom Tradition

                                                                        

THE TRADITIONAL JUMPING THE BROOM


-- ,IS A CEREMONY  AT A WEDDING , WITH


 ALL FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS AND  




NEIGHBORS WITNESSING THE WONDERFUL  EVENT


                         IT WAS A CONFIRMATION OF BOTH
THE COUPLES CHOICE TO BE COMMITTED TO EACH
OTHER.    THERE WAS A TIME IN THE DAYS OF SLAVERY  ,, WHEN A CEREMONY LIKE THIS WAS
RECOGNIZED AS THE CLOSEST UNITY OTHER THEN
A LEGAL BINDING MARRIAGE.    

                                                                                                   SLAVES WERE NOT GIVEN THE SANCTITY   OF  A  PROPER MARRIAGE   TIL SOME TIME AFTER THE CIVIL WAR.





                                           WELL THAT DIDNT STOP A COUPLE FROM BEING CREATIVE ,

                                                                    ALL YOU NEED IS WITNESSES , AND A COMMITMENT   TO EACH OTHER , AND A GOD FEARING MAN TO SAY ALL THE RIGHT

        THINGS AND ITS A DONE DEAL ..... YOU SEE THATS WHY YOUR WORD MEANS A LOT ,
 WORDS HAVE SUBSTANCE ,,, EVEN 2 LITTLE WORDS LIKE   I DO  , CAN HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF WEIGHT..        






                                                NOW JUMPING THE BROOM WAS NO STRANGE PRACTICE ,


                  EVEN AMONG THE EUROPEANS AND THOSE OF SCOTLAND AND OTHERS ,

         BECAUSE THEY MAY HAVE LEARNED IT FROM THE GYPSIES AS EARLY AS THE 1700S





                                         THERE WERE THOSE , WHO WOULD BOLDLY PRONOUNCE , THEY

                  HAVE JUMPED THE BROOM , A FEW TIMES EVEN IN THEIR DAY .      HOWEVER,

                                       AS YOU WOULD GUESS ,  CERTAIN FOLKS BELIEVE THERE WAS


    A SIGNIFICANCE BEHIND THE FACT , WHEN THE COUPLE JUMPED AT THE END OF

      A CEREMONY AND WHOEVER FEET HIT THE GROUND FIRST , WAS GOING TO WEAR

    THE PANTS IN THAT MARRIAGE ,,, AND THEY EVEN BELIEVED THAT IF YOU JUMPED

     TOO HIGH , THAT  IT SIGNIFIED TROUBLE . .       THERE ARE SOME FAMILIES TODAY,


    THAT HAVE A LOT OF RESPECT FOR THE BELIEFS AND PRACTICES OF OUR ANCESTORS,              SO THEY STILL ON OCCASION JUMP THE BROOM TODAY. .
           


                      
                                

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